So What *IS* My ‘Official’ Mother Tongue?

It’s not census time in Canada, but one question has always been in my mind.  What am I supposed to answer when they ask about my so-called “mother tongue?”  Do I REALLY say that it’s Cantonese?  Or should I say that it’s English?  I feel like I’m lying either way, as I’m sure many children […]

Happy Fifth Birthday, DelectablyChic!

DelectablyChic! Anniversary, five years, DelectablyChic, Cynthia Cheng Mintz

Today is my birthday.  Incidently, it is also DelectablyChic!‘s birthday.  Five years ago today, the two year old Prospere Magazine became DelectablyChic!.  Though there were a couple of posts which went live before September 1, 2010, the first “official” post was a restaurant review of Cantine, located on Avenue Road, just north of Bloor. What […]

Who Will Donald Trump Insult Next?

The list is growing.  So far, the count includes women, immigrants, veterans and more recently, hedge fund managers.  He hasn’t insulted ALL of Wall Street yet, but I won’t be surprised if he does.  And he’s gaining support.  I’m not surprised about that.  There is a segment of American society who DOES feel that way.  […]

Bloggers, Previews and All That Swag…

I recently enacted a “limited swag” rule for myself when I go to previews.  Over the seven or so years I’ve been serious about blogging, I’ve gone to tons of events – mostly previews – and have received many, many bags.  Most of the time, it just stays in my office, cluttering up space and […]

Is it NOT Feminist to be ‘Proper’?

When I was in my early 20s, I begged my parents to send me to a finishing school in Switzerland.  A bona fide school where I would be trained in social graces, international etiquette and everything that goes with a standard finishing school curriculum.  We even found one and asked for an application.  I was […]

Casualization of the Wardrobe and Apologizing for What I Wear

When I was in my early 20s, people would often ask why I was “so dressed up” and it got really annoying.  As if it’s really weird to wear dresses and heels on a weekend.  It still happens once in a while now that I’m in my 30s, but never in my area – I […]

On FLOW: A New Alkaline Glacier Water

UPDATE:  Looks like FLOW is now available in select stores including Whole Foods Yorkville!  It’s great that the water is now able to get some proper visibility!  Best of luck to them. I was recently sent a box of individual water from FLOW, a new alkaline water through its PR company, NKPR.  I was fairly […]

Long Weekend Traditions: Monday Brunch and Cupcakes

My husband and I have a tradition each holiday weekend.  We have brunch at one particular restaurant.  It’s not exactly a fancy place – in fact, it’s a small chain of breakfast joints called Eggspectation.  And with the exception of the few months the Toronto location moved and was renovating its new spot, we’ve been […]

Petite Sizes: Is it Getting Better?

I’d say, to a certain extent, yes.  Most major brands that carry petites have launched their spring looks, and while many of the pieces still lean towards office-friendly, the choices are growing, sometimes with almost as much variety as regular sizes.  But, it’s not quite there…yet.  Sometimes, certain looks aren’t available in petites at all […]

‘Is Cynthia Your Real Name?’ and Other Weird Comments

The now-cancelled #racetogether campaign at American Starbucks locations had me thinking.  Ethnic issues aren’t something that I think about on a daily basis – it’s not something that really “affects” me all that often.  However, once in a while, things do happen.  As I’ve noted in the past, it almost always comes from women of […]