Old Fashioned, On Social Media

Recently, I’ve found myself unfollowing many of my social media friends.  I’m technically still “friends” with them on Facebook, but I’ve just eliminated them from popping up on my feed.  It’s just that I can’t stand their perspective anymore – especially in this political climate.  I understand that we form our views based on experience […]

What’s with Young People and Manners/Respect?

I can’t believe I’m saying this!  I’m only 36!  Anyway, my husband and I saw The Phantom of the Opera over the weekend – my first time seeing it live since 1994 (I saw the crappy movie version in 2004).  While the production was just okay – the chandelier wasn’t as elaborate as I remembered […]

Is it NOT Feminist to be ‘Proper’?

When I was in my early 20s, I begged my parents to send me to a finishing school in Switzerland.  A bona fide school where I would be trained in social graces, international etiquette and everything that goes with a standard finishing school curriculum.  We even found one and asked for an application.  I was […]

Young Males and Spoon Etiquette: What’s Up With That?

I’ve seen it with guys I know.  It’s in a recent Quaker Oats ad.  It’s also in the poster for the upcoming movie, That Awkward Moment.  What am I talking about?  It’s the way guys hold spoons.  They hold them with their entire hand.  Why?  It looks so…odd.  It isn’t really how one SHOULD be […]

Toronto Mayor Rob Ford Needs a Makeover?

This isn’t only about what Rob Ford wears or doesn’t wear.  It’s about his attitude, too.  One can look like George Clooney, yet have the behaviour of Charlie Sheen or Russell Crowe – after all, it took Eliza Doolittle from My Fair Lady/Pygmalion a while to speak with a “proper” accent – she wasn’t a lady […]

The Basic Home Library

I’m always amazed at people’s book collections.  I’ve been to homes where people have books that have been passed down from generation to generation – some even have books that go back to the 19th century.  These books are sometimes stored in regular, modern bookshelves, but the ones that are in old, woody rooms with […]

Etiquette Classes OK – Just Don’t Call it ‘Princess Camp’

Since Prince William and Kate Middleton’s engagement, there have been many articles and newstories across a wide variety of media about “princess boot camps” – places little girls attend to learn proper etiquette and how to act like a “real princess.”  These camps have been criticized by many feminists as reinforcing traditional roles of women having […]

Holiday Party Etiquette Refresher

Cynthia Cheng Mintz   Good behaviour is very important at parties, so here are some rules to always remember (regardless of what kind of holiday or party you are going to):  If you’re at a cocktail event, make sure you mingle.  Standing around the buffet is not a good thing and neither is sitting in […]